I miscarried at 20 weeks gestation (5 months). It was very emotional and difficult to bear.
The most frustrating part was:
1) No reason for it…all tests came back good according to doctors and
2) After the procedure, you are sent home with the same pain as if you gave birth (1 day/night hospital stay should be required).
I have to say that if it wasn’t for my two year old, I would not be able to handle this as well. I’m thankful for my child. I also know how common miscarriages are and life goes on. I think its pointless to sit and dwell on something that is out of my control.
Was I heartbroken? Yes.
Did I feel the emotional loss? Yes.
Do I fear it’ll happen again? Of course.
Is this going to stop my life? No!
I believe that what is meant to be will be.